Rebel, are you there? I know you're sick of your bra squeezing you day and night, of feeling like you're holding your breath most of the time, of the ritual of buying bras over and over again and realizing that not as comfortable after a few washes.
If there's one thing most women have come to realize after working from home, it's that you do n't have to wear a bra, at least not most of the time.
Don't deny that you're a bit of a " no bra ". All of us women are to some extent!
Should I wear a bra? Sorry, I don't obey the rules
Wearing a bra has long been considered a rite of passage for girls. As soon as a girl reaches puberty and her breasts begin to grow, it becomes necessary to wear a bra.
A bra is meant to support the bust and is meant to make a difference in how your clothes look. But who set these rules? Who says the perfect breast has to be apple-shaped, round and straight and to get the shape you want you have to keep wearing that all-too-often uncomfortable thing?
May all these codes go in the trash. If I don't feel comfortable. Enough of chasing after that perfect image that is marketed in movies, magazines, lingerie commercials, etc. Nobody is perfect , it does not exist!
You should know that the breasts, like the rest of the body, develop throughout our lives due to the hormonal changes that we go through. It develops during puberty, change at the times of the menstrual cycle. They can also take a cup size during pregnancy or when changing contraceptives.
Our breasts are far from this "fixed definition", which is still far from being real or representative of the wide variety of shapes and sizes that our breasts can have. So love your body, love all your imperfections and celebrate your breasts, whatever their shape and size. These are the laws of nature! Neither you, nor I, nor any other woman should resemble this codified beauty.
"No bra": new trend or lifestyle?
Unfortunately, wearing a bra often causes back pain. Who among us has never taken off her bra as soon as she walked through the door after a long day at work.
In fact, for such reasons, many women find comfort in not wearing it. If we do some simple math, if you started wearing a bra when you were 14 and you're now 28, and you wear your bra 8 hours a day... That's equal to 40,880 hours of discomfort!
Guess that would be a good reason to consider quitting wearing a bra that doesn't fit your body well, right?
You can have a great vacation with a little extra freedom without getting a sweaty chest or red marks on your skin. You can walk the streets and take the subway even without a bra.
Certainly, we are not saying that it is absolutely necessary not to wear it, it can be just as pleasant to wear a pretty bra and especially if it is comfortable and highlights our femininity. But you can still do some activities like climbing and driving without having to wear them and you'll be fine. Being a part-time No bra , what!
And if I had to choose, I would choose to love myself
Women may not have burned their bras in the 70s as legend has it, but these days more and more No-bra followers are throwing their bras in the trash without regret. .
The trend for the undershirt push-up effect, dictating the aesthetics of the 2000s/2010s, has always been round, high and firm breasts like an apple. So much so that it is sometimes difficult to find an unpadded bra . In fact, many women offer to free the breasts from something considered unnecessary and uncomfortable.
The new slogan is " My comfort is above all " and ours is " Be proud of it".
The alternative of the perfect bra with Titits?
As you noted in this article, we're not advocating anything, we're just talking about a simple idea as the world goes: Everyone does what they please!
So what if you say to yourself, less aggressive bras, no bra and a smarter choice on your next bras?
At Titits , we were keen to create bras for small, fuller breasts , so if you have a pretty AA, A or B cup, you're in luck!
Because we took more than one to draw and create our first models, because we were tired of finding only lingerie imagined for a woman with a flat stomach, a 90C and an apple-shaped breast.
Finally, the easiest way is that you discover the models by yourself by clicking here
In conclusion, if you want to feel good about yourself, the first thing you need to do is accept your body. You also have to believe in the term " body positive " to improve your self-esteem and accept your little imperfections.
Stop comparing yourself to others and stand out for your uniqueness and seek inspiration from people who look like you. Appreciate your body for what it does for you, and move away from focusing solely on "physical appearance".
And always wear what makes you feel comfortable, what suits your skin tone, what suits your taste, not what fashion and trends dictate. Don't be part of the herd. 😉